tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post4796325286599449500..comments2024-03-09T10:14:49.991+00:00Comments on BarrenAlbion: Wayfaring strangerMsPrufrockhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06533722219016814501noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-27646967334441119202009-04-18T20:19:00.000+01:002009-04-18T20:19:00.000+01:00Ahem, you're complaining about lack of comments?
...Ahem, you're complaining about lack of comments? <br />I can count comments at my place on the fingers of one hand. Of course I'm not doing anything exciting like planning to move country. Just boringly doing ART all over again.Lut C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03893061829410958985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-16188758243521327372009-04-17T17:32:00.000+01:002009-04-17T17:32:00.000+01:00Delurking to say that I'm still your biggest fan/s...Delurking to say that I'm still your biggest fan/stalker (albeit a silent one). Also, did it occur to you that Bloglines is to blame for your lack of comments?? This is the first post that's come up in months! Well, at least now I have a fun way to procrastinate today... I can catch up on your brilliant writing. That will be loads more fun than watching that Susan Boyle clip on youtube again. I cry so much it makes my face hurt.mmhttp://limboparty.typepad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-48265227944627670822009-04-17T08:05:00.000+01:002009-04-17T08:05:00.000+01:00Canada had lots of snow. It was cool and all, but ...Canada had lots of snow. It was cool and all, but SNOW. Just sayin'.queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00539184323507342634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-58029023809809897792009-04-16T21:37:00.000+01:002009-04-16T21:37:00.000+01:00I haven't completely understood why canada, why US...I haven't completely understood why canada, why US? There are cheaper places to live in the UK as Katie says - including if you moved out into the country near where you are now, but of course much more so if you go to the North of England. Is there a reason you've ruled that out?<br /><br />I hope you are able to find your HOME soon.Thaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12125639207843989848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-60737095511657151972009-04-15T21:50:00.000+01:002009-04-15T21:50:00.000+01:00NEVER!NEVER!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-56303847384775032022009-04-15T18:16:00.000+01:002009-04-15T18:16:00.000+01:00your brother will stop reading before I do.
I am ...your brother will stop reading before I do.<br /><br />I am sad that you are having a hard time getting readers, because you are definitely one of the better-written blogs I read.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-37508282763653384942009-04-15T17:51:00.000+01:002009-04-15T17:51:00.000+01:00Well as a Canadian/British couple who just moved (...Well as a Canadian/British couple who just moved (and moved back) to Canada 18 months ago I can tell you that your husband is wrong and right.<br /><br />Its been a tough year - but you have to be realistic and see that its tough everywhere and once you have that in perspective Canada is doing a lot better than most places (US & UK included).<br /><br />It can be hard for non-Canadians to find work but it really depends on what you do. Husbando is a cameraman and has seriously struggled but a friend is an engineer and another a builder and they have waltzed into work and never been happier.<br /><br />Canada was built on the backs of immigrants and it never really forgets that. There is work if you want it - it might just take you a while to get into your chosen field (depending on what it is and I can't remember for the life of me what your other half does.)<br /><br />Here we have a big(ish) 3000+ square foot, 4 bedroom, 3 bathroom house in a great neighbourhood for less than our 1000 sq ft ex-council house in a bad neighbourhood. We live within 10 minutes of 3 other couples all who either have or are having kids and who we spend time with every week. Travel is expensive (not jetting off somewhere exotic for the weekend) but with a baby on the way we are surrounded by tons of kid friendly activities, parks, schools and facilities. <br /><br />We struggled a LOT in that first year but Husbando was just back in the UK and said he wouldn't be willing to give up everything we have hear to go back.<br /><br />Yes there are plenty of people who got here, struggled and then turned back (sometimes only after a matter of weeks) and then who go on and on about how terrible Canada is to immigrants. When I arrived in the UK it was incredibly tough too - just depends what you want out of something. Canada isn't the be all and end all - the streets aren't paved with gold (or maple syrup) but if you want it you can make a wonderful life here.The_EmilyBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09518701459742284875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-11523693146935789372009-04-15T16:38:00.000+01:002009-04-15T16:38:00.000+01:00Having lived in California for 22 years, I would o...Having lived in California for 22 years, I would opt to live in Canada instead of the U.S. I think it is a much more user friendly country. The U.S. is tough going and not at all what it is cracked up to be.Irenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05043376053971475659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-89580972782877191092009-04-15T14:59:00.000+01:002009-04-15T14:59:00.000+01:00Bloglines sez you have 51 subscribers there, and w...Bloglines sez you have 51 subscribers there, and we don't get the updates so much, as you know. It's a miracle that I got this post in timely fashion.<br /><br />I feel you on the yearning for space and home. We are contemplating a move from Big City for that very same reason. Same as you--always thought we'd be able to have a decent place to live etc. here, but have finally realized that it's never going to happen.<br /><br />If you move to near where you grew up and I move to where I'm thinking of, we'll be less than 2 hours apart! Would love to get P and BG in a room together.electricladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13336802326230963572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-57018556719893313112009-04-15T14:56:00.000+01:002009-04-15T14:56:00.000+01:00Ooh, if you move back to your hometown you will on...Ooh, if you move back to your hometown you will only be a couple of hours from me!! No pressure, though. :-) And just think, you'd get to hang with the Brain Trust on the regular. What better incentive are you looking for?Rachelhttp://www.racheldirollzack.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-60599977142654814272009-04-15T13:42:00.000+01:002009-04-15T13:42:00.000+01:00I'm just catching up - bloglines ate your posts. A...I'm just catching up - bloglines ate your posts. As for the move I second the North of England option.<br /><br />And ex-pats? They are just as bad here (in Denmark).Carohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08210823139583056706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-76413152869905707692009-04-15T11:56:00.000+01:002009-04-15T11:56:00.000+01:001. Did I write this post?
2. Um - healthcare? O...1. Did I write this post?<br />2. Um - healthcare? Ours just went up to $1500/month. I know most people have that kooky benefit through work, but some employers don't find the need to pay more than 33%. Thanks! Speaking of digression. Not that I wouldn't want to have you 12 hours down the road...<br />3. I was very transient until I moved back to Boston. Even though we 'may' move towns for a better school system in general (we have a lottery system in Boston), we're in this location until we retire and get into full fledged alcoholism somewhere warm.<br /><br />Why do you want to move from the UK?<br /><br />Ok - maybe I should start on my taxes now, eh? Heh heh. Ugh.Thttp://goodtimesgoodtimes.typepad.com/goodtimesgoodtimes/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-46895819826728015062009-04-15T10:37:00.000+01:002009-04-15T10:37:00.000+01:00Damn right this isn't America in the UK - where's ...Damn right this isn't America in the UK - where's my damn Target, I ask you? And who do I have to kill to get a smoothie around here?<br /><br />I think you'll settle down when you settle down. You'll just know. I had a hugely transient childhood and adulthood until we bought this house. Now I'm of the view that my blood, it's UNDER THE FLOORBOARDS. We are not moving. We are home.<br /><br />You'll find that too.Helenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12236724715757740367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-60773710907563885882009-04-15T05:46:00.000+01:002009-04-15T05:46:00.000+01:00I'll probably still be reading three years for now...I'll probably still be reading three years for now. Although my commenting has also gone to shit recently, so I may not be saying hello that often...<br /><br />I don't think you've moved around that much, so I'm willing to bet when you do decide where you want to end up, that you'll all be happy there.Nicohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16391676406311335476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-91836409494091582072009-04-15T03:28:00.000+01:002009-04-15T03:28:00.000+01:00I'm REALLY good at being Polly Anna. Shall I stand...I'm REALLY good at being Polly Anna. Shall I stand in? We don't own, but rent a house and I've always been very happy with renting. I hope you guys find a solution.<br />*HUGS*Beautiful Messhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02425541240465474148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-72354320397800813232009-04-15T03:01:00.000+01:002009-04-15T03:01:00.000+01:00Um, Hello? You didn't even comment on my catheter...Um, Hello? You didn't even comment on my catheter post, and that shit was FUNNY. Not to mention, I listen to you complain on IM all day. <br /><br />Oh wait, that's me that complains? Nevermind then, carry on.statiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14467429719047005561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-73498170873895758782009-04-15T01:29:00.000+01:002009-04-15T01:29:00.000+01:00I'm still reading although I've been slacking on c...I'm still reading although I've been slacking on commenting at anyone's blogs, not just yours. <br /><br />I think that yearning for something different, something better, is a constant. It is with me, I know. I just thought it meant I hadn't grown up yet....Major Bedheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17669161302510096751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-31283682671213864312009-04-15T01:23:00.000+01:002009-04-15T01:23:00.000+01:00Looking forward to having you back stateside!
Enj...Looking forward to having you back stateside!<br /><br />Enjoy your ten to fourteen fucking days of vacation a year!<br /><br />And six weeks of maternity leave! UNPAID! :)Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12515687893431870192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-39378374084143032492009-04-15T01:11:00.000+01:002009-04-15T01:11:00.000+01:00With my disjointed family, I've known many people ...With my disjointed family, I've known many people like you speak of - "it would be so lovely here if it weren't for the natives, and if it was only just like home".<br /><br />We are also talking about a more permanent move some day to the US, but are worried about job permanency (in my case, because of what I do it is a lot easier to find something permanent in the UK), working conditions (again mainly for me) and in particular about medical insurance (mainly for Mr Spouse who isn't a citizen and would likely be retired by the time our plans came to fruition - we just talked to a British friend out here whose mother is paying $1000 a month for just her for something not very exciting in an HMO).<br /><br />I still think you should move to the North of England. Houses are pretty cheap now and salaries in the university sector are pretty much standard nationally.DrSpousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07259337858075146058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-21059878360293703672009-04-15T00:53:00.001+01:002009-04-15T00:53:00.001+01:00I'm excited for your move! I must say, after yea...I'm excited for your move! I must say, after years of apartment living, having a house with a real yard (especially with a young kid) is a true joy. I think you will really enjoy it!Jenhttp://fertilitynow.typepad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-17347582376975071942009-04-15T00:53:00.000+01:002009-04-15T00:53:00.000+01:00Hey, I read too!! I work with a lady from the UK ...Hey, I read too!! I work with a lady from the UK who married an American and she is doing great! They just bought a "proper home"!!<br /><br />OK no more !!. I will still be reading in 3 years.<br /><br />JillAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9862855.post-83255411136395661382009-04-15T00:23:00.000+01:002009-04-15T00:23:00.000+01:00I read, I read! I am just a lazy commenter.
For w...I read, I read! I am just a lazy commenter.<br /><br />For what it's worth, a friend and her boyfriend, both U.S. citizens, just moved to Canada and got themselves gainfully employed without too much trouble.<br /><br />Not that I'm discouraging you from the U.S., but the Kit-Kats are better in Canada. Something to think about.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11563829976522188467noreply@blogger.com